Ohhh I am sooo glad to know I am not the only one going through this right now lol It's soo frustrating. She's even figured out that if mummy says no, go ask daddy! And I'll be sitting there gobsmacked while shes asking daddy. Or she'll ask for something and i'll say no ava not right now and she'll just ask it again directed at dp and just keep asking over and over and asking over the top of me like blatantly ignoring me! I can see her teenage years already lol and I am scared!
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I'm there with the others - so glad others are going through same thing because at least it sounds like it's more of a phase than a huge concern. I keep telling myself that if I act normally - calm and positive during this lousy stage then she will come out the other end better for it - sooo hard sometimes!
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I try and pick my battles, that is if it appropriate I will ignore it. I think this a really important stage as this is when they are learning to stand up for themselves and put in boundaries for themselves. The challenge for us is teaching them to be assertive and not aggressivie
DS asked daddy for something that I had already said no and daddy asked DS what mummy said and DS said mummy said yes :O I couldn't believe my ears and that he was playing me already lol
I pray it passes quickly
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Aaaaargh it really does do your head in some days doesn't it!!! I also try to pick my battles, in fact tonight I told DH I thought he needed to pick his battles a little more lol....like the get out of the bath one tonight, it really wasn't going to hurt to say ok you can have 2 more minutes but then you need to hop out if you still want to go and listen to some music. Then there are those days where EVERYTHING is a battle omg. But I wanted to do this, I wanted you to park the car there... (yes I'm serious lol)... ahhh deary me. I sometimes tell him that when he stops whinging about it and speaks nicely I will listen again. I find the problem is that every day it seems what worked the day before doesn't work the next day..... lol eeek! And that's why we have BELLYBELLY!!!
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Doesn't work in our house! I am The Law, and all that dwell here defer to me *puts dominatrix hat on*
Except the tv, the other half has domain over the tv. Its actually a computer. The little people have FINALLY been trained to direct all questions about computers to him not me, but it took 6 freakin years to do it and she still occasionally asks me first.
DD#1 was watching Strictest Parents last night and told me I was strict. Thanks for noticing, kiddo.
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don't mean to hi-jack your thread but just had to share a couple of story's from today.
So DS wanted a lollypop and I said if you finish your breakfast you can (yes I know it's early but it gives the sugar time to wear off) well he didn't finish his breakfast so there was no lollipop and he is obviously not happy. I needed to go to the toilet and was sitting on there when he comes in and get's up me and tells me to "get off as it is Daddy's toilet" then later when we were in the kitchen he asked again and I said no so he goes "I know" and goes and get's a chair and takes it over to the cupboard - shame I knew it was never going to reach.
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lol had to giggle.... Oskar chucks tantrums sometimes if we go to the toilet... he starts yelling and carrying on saying "but I wanted to go first" lol... ummmm well too late now. Lollipops... ahhhhh I have them UNDER the kitchen sink behind a child locked door in an airtight container lol.
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