Thanks Julie! I shouldn't complain, i do get compliments on them all the time, just tend to forget those in liew of the bad days!

I have thought about daycare but was thinking on a wednesday for my older one so i can spend some quality time with the baby and catch up on housework. But i'm still in two minds about daycare. Plus again, my stubborness, i feel like i should be able to manage without having to outsource