DS1 gave them up i'm guessing at the 2.5 mark. Before that he slept when we were home and if he missed it that was ok too.

DS2 is now 2.10 and still sleeping daily. Again if he misses a sleep it's not an issue he will just fall asleep quicker of an evening. I put him down between 12:30 & 2 (no later than 2) depending on the day and he will sleep for 2-3 hours. He just needs it, i tried to cut them out as of an evening it can take him some time to drift off but it wasn't working. He loves his sleep and i need the down time.

DD is totally different. Has been a cat napper since birth, 3x1 hrs in the young months and then 2x1 now. I do my best to make her get no less than those two sleeps but it's hard being so much busier than i was with one and even two. I have no idea how long the sleeps will last with her but i'm not expecting it to be anything like the boys.

After all that rambling i think it's just the child who tells us when they've had enough