I have a little boy (16 months) who also is a dreadful sleeper. I now just accept him for who he is and try not to let it get to me. I have baby number 2 due in November so would love some nights of sound sleep but I have decided it will come when he is ready. We've been to sleep school and it didn't work, he has a very strict bedtime routine, bath at 7. bottle and in bed by 7.30 every night. He goes to sleep OK but just cn't stay asleep. Most nights it is only one wake up call and we've gone back to giving him a bottle o/n to get him back to sleep. Might be against all the rules but it works for us. I keep telling myslef it won't last forever but I desperately hope that has has his night sleeps sorted by the time his sister arrives! Good luck, try to hang in there. I know it feels like everyone else has a perfect sleeping baby but those of us who don't are out there and we understand how you feel.