Transition was she pulled the cot down and put the bed up... Explained to DD that This is her new big girls bed, coz she is a big girl now... her DD still has her binky (pacifier) But know relies on bec to fall asleep (bec has to stay there untill she is fast asleep otherwise DD will awake)

Thanks, I will suggest the things you have mention... And if anyone else has any ideas - please come forward, poor girl is getting a bit worked up!