hmm... DS is 3, I guess bed time is around 7.30 where possible.. we're often doing something in the evenings, or DH gets home later than usual, so sometimes it's later. He's usually up at around 6am. He comes into our bed then, and actually went back to sleep this morning, yay! He still has a day sleep over lunch time, except for when he's at preschool. So he can go without, but he usually has to catch up after 2 days at preschool (as in.. will have a 3hr day sleep the next day to catch up!)

DD is nearly 1.5. No bed time.. just whenever she is tired. She still wakes a lot through the night, but is generally up for the day around 6ish too. But she'll go back down for a sleep not long after breakfast.

DS started sleeping through around 2.5yo and it was then that we could start using a bedtime. Otherwise it was just when he was tired too.