doudou - i wish but we are in a one bedroom unit atm till we move to brissy (before Oct) so theres not point looking for a bigger house here iykwim. She is very much a mummy's girl and wants to be with me all the time. Thanks for the advice

rainforest - yep im starting to think the same thing. waste of $$$. this one does convert to a toddler bed some mayb some day i will get use out of it. Also should prob look into getting a king size bed for us, the little bed hog. i was thinking about getting a barrier for one side of our bed, that way she can be next to me and ican be next to DP but that still kinda scares me a little... wat if it falls off.. she ends up on the floor, oh i would never forgive myself.

Cai - thanks darl. Its so hard, being a first time mum i think we all rely too much on them books and what they should be doing. I think they are helpful for pregnancy but babies.. no. They all set out perfect life, perfect baby and perfect routine, which just isnt realistic.

Kirst - thanks darl xoxoxo