Well Mel, Nyah is 3 and Will is 8mths, personally I would have liked them to be closer in age, but it's proved valid anyway as she's such a big help and understands things I tell her about him a little more than I guess she would if she was 2. Does that make sense?

But my brother and I are only 13mths apart and we're very close, and according to mum we always have been, I looked after Cameron always, changed his bed if he wet it and slept with him if he was scared etc, so I guess it can work either way. If we have another Id like it to be soonish but DH says he wont even consider it till Will is 18 mths at least, but Im working on it.