Thanks Kelly...
She has two sleeps a day of between 30min to 2 hrs..... she is at my friends during the day while I am at work... DH works out of town during the weeks, si it is only me at home on my own during the week....

I thought about co-sleeping with her when DH is away (he is too sound a sleeper for her to be in bed with us), but have heard & read that it is not a good thing if the parents are smokers (I smoke but only outside)...

I am trying to find the wonder weeks over here, but will try & find Pinkys book too....


At least there is a light at the tunnel.... eventually!!!!!!!