Thanks guys.

FJ - I so couldn't even think of the monster not having a day sleep - he is such a cranky little thing when he gets the sleeps!! I think I would have to leave home if he dropped it.. lol That being said, on day care days he has a midday sleep and then goes to bed a little earlier than usual at night. It just seems that since he has been getting up so early lately (5am) by 9.30 he is ready for a nap and sometimes only sleeps one hour. So I do try and put him down again in the arvo for a quick nap as he doesn't go to sleep until 8.30 at night.

I did try dropping down to one sleep a little while ago, with no success. Maybe its time to try that again? Ahhh who knows.. sometimes I just feel like I'm because I have no idea what he wants or needs!!!!! I think it would make the decision easier if he was a happy go lucky kid that wasn't a bother when he wasn't sleeping!!!! Because he is my monster, I love it when he goes to sleep because I get to have a breather from the constant whinging!!!!!

Vicky - thanks mate