Well i had 2 under 12 months and soon 3 under 25 months!!!

My way of surviving (when DD2 came along) and even now (aged nearly 1 and 23 months) was routine. They would nap at the same time, feed around the same time, id sleep when they did, forget house work until your settled into home alone, EAT...something i stopped doing.

Ask for help if you need it...dont do it alone if your not coping