PP - just put the clothes away - iron clothes as you need them honey!!!! As for nappies - I do mine of a night time - when the kids are in bed or if one of them is in bed and DH has the other one under control.

I also (in the early days) made a lunchbox up for DS so during the day I just went to the lunchbox and grabbed him some food, at the same time as feeding DD.

Plus movies - lots of movies.. and now he can change them himself, its better, but also a pain in the butt cos he wants to do it all the time!!!!!

I found the hardest part when I was trying to settle DD and DS wants me to play with him or give him a cuddle and would SCREAM the house down because I couldn't do it - which then made it hard to get DD to sleep. But that doesn't happen every day (thank god!!)

I found books good too. When feeding the newborn, have the toddler next to you and read them a book. then they feel that they are getting attention too.

Ummm... thats all I can think of at the moment. DS is at daycare today (woot!) so I have a lot more time to actually concentrate on my housework.

Thats my biggest tip - childcare - even for one day for the toddler - lets you catch up on the housework/ironing stuff that is hard to get done with both of them around.

Oh - and go out on the weekend - even for a few hours - the break is nice. DH watches both the kids on a Sunday morning while I go get the groceries (although this weekend will be Saturday since we have the meet up!!!)

Good luck - it gets better - the first month was the hardest for me - I was pulling my hair out. Its easier now - but we still have our days of frustration (ie, yesterday!!)

Let me know if you want a visitor, cos I can bring DS down to play with your DD - and then we can sit down with the babies and have a cuppa or something