This is also what I'm worried about. Dh's family are a bit....odd. His sister is a bit hysterical at the best of times. I can see ds being used as a shoulder to cry on- I'm having images of my mil holding him and sobbing.

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That is how Kane is treated sometimes, being the poor "cleft" kid....people wanna cuddle and touch him when they are upset... Thats why I didn't take him...