Not that I have girls rofl but I could never get my girl done (if I had one hehehe) I had mine done when I was 12 or 13 and something happened and the earring came loose and the blanket I had on my bed caught it (cause I sleep with my blankets around my head) and ripped the earring from my ear. I had blood going everywhere. Mum never had pierced ears herself and so it was my step dad who had to get it back in.

I have always had problems since with that hole with it smelling bad at times etc no matter how often it is washed with stuff, so it has put me off pierced ears for life. I never wear anything but sleepers now as well cause that hole plays up if there is anything different.

Fi I agree about the darker children.

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