babysitting request etiquette

[Emma1979]

its not genuine though... she talks alot about wanting them but then is never available... she was meant to look after them today and never did, never called or anything.... its all for show.... alot of talking the talk but not walking the walk, if that makes sense... anyways i'll work through it and get over it... i have way bigger things to worry about at the moment yet this plagues me.

[maz]

that just emotional black mail...she doesnt say it to DD at all and doesnt follow through? thats just plain horrible why go to all that effort and not do it? man

Please dont send her my way now.....I dont think I need to replace my kicking post yet