Assuming AF arrives on time tomorrow, if I fall pregnant on my next cycle bub #2 and Alexzander will have their birthdays pretty close together. Alexzander's cycle started June 5th and this one will be June 7th. I suppose though Zander was a week later & this next bub will probably be a week or so early due to having an elective c/s so it will probably be about 2-3 weeks difference.

I can't remember how active I was when Zander was 3 weeks old, I know I was walking ok & had been shopping a few times, but would I be ok with a birthday?? I don't want Zander to have his 2nd birthday with a mummy that can't give him cuddles because of the new baby.

Should I wait this next cycle out (assuming I'm not pregnant now) or should I go for it & let nature decide??? I'm leaning towards going for it, but I really really don't want Zander to have to deal with getting used to a new baby and then having his birthday affected by my ceaserean....

Any thoughts????