I would go for it. At 2 Zander won't remember if you were picking him up at his second birthday or not. It certainly won't effect his long term love for you either. You probably won't be able to lift him up for cuddles if you're having a c/s as you aren't suppose to lift anything heavier then your baby for the first 6 weeks, but I wouldn't let this stop you. Your choice but i'd go for it! Good luck.