Thats normal too!! I was wondering what to do with Matilda as well.... but you keep pretty busy at first! The first few weeks are generally dictated by your baby, or hopefully are dictated by bubs. When you sleep/eat/bath etc.... after that things settle down a little bit but it all comes in time. Its crazy. But know that it only lasts a short while & make use of all the support you can get!!! I'll be in Sydney in May!!