Deb, IKWYM about visitors as I am the same and am experiencing the nightmare now. I know it is nice of people to want to come over but all to often Emily is due to be fed (and I'm not comfortable feeding in public just yet, particularly with family) or has just gone to sleep and I would like to join her etc. I have also found that they love to work out that she is hungry and make noises about leaving but don't actually do so - its like they like to see her fussing more. Fortunatley I have developed an ability to be rude and now say "i'm going to go and feed her" and disappear off to my room. 9 times out of 10 Kev will come down 5 minutes later to say they have left. Another big plus is caller ID on your phone - cause if you don't want to let people know you are home you don't have to answer it.