I think the first few days/weeks at home do depend on the type of labour you have. I was very sore and tired, thank goodness DH was home to do the cooking and washing. I wouldn't have done it otherwise!

We haven't had many visitors luckily and those that have come have called first. When DH goes back to work next week I am going to use the 'Mother and Baby resting... please do not disturb' sign on the front door when I don't feel like seeing anyone.

With the showers, I can't decide whether to have one before DH goes to work in the morning or not. Maybe it'll depend on whether Matthew is awake or not then wanting a feed. Otherwise I think I'll take him into the bathroom with me in his bassinette (it had wheels) when he is sleeping.

You'll get sick of everyone saying,' sleep/rest when the baby sleeps' but that really is the best advice. I find that after 2 weeks I am still quite exhausted during the day and need my rest. Housework can definitely wait and if anyone complains, then I'll hand them the vaccuum!