Good on you for having a look around today . You could always set yourself a goal and "trial" M for a couple of sessions before deciding to definitely send him. I reckon it will help make your mind up either way. If he's having a wonderful time, then you'll know . I found the first one or two times a bit sad when dropping J and K off, but after that I just enjoy the one on one time I get with DD. It's so quiet!

And btw, you are one VERY smart woman