We're in the same boat here. Its taken weeks to even get the courage to do the ring around, and even then DH had to do it cause I just didn't have the courage to do it!

We went today as well. We actually went to a preschool where DD1's friend goes. And we went today because today is one that girl's preschool days. When we turned up we did the usual chat with director, then once we went outside, and DD1 found her friend. It felt so right. We really felt comfortable with the centre, they all seemed nice, all of the kids were calmly playing, and it felt like one big family. It was nice.

I still don't want to send her, but I am feeling so confident that she has a friend there already, and DD1 will go on one of her friend's preschool days. I feel good about this, I know she has a familiar face there, who will look after her. And after today I know she will!

DD1 cried today too when we left, she wasnt ready to go.

Boomba, I know exactly where you are at. Im glad you found a nice place today too! Have you thought about taking him to a centre where maybe one of his friends already goes. I know that made my nerves settle lots!

You know where to find me if you want to chat!