Lou, i think u r doing a fabulous job with Josh!!!!!! U don't need to worry because from what i've seen he really is a happy little thing that just wants those extra cuddles and reassurances when he gets tired. It is still early days for him and remember he has spent so much time within ur tummy that it's natural for him to want to be close to mum. Never mind those "He's getting used to the arms" comments....i got plenty of those too - lol and as u know Ella is a really content and independant bub. You know Josh better than anyone else in this world so if u think he needs those cuddles give them to him