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  1. #1
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    yes, many times. But as a parent we have the right to be biased.

  2. #2
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    Jan 2008
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    i am actually sad admitting that!!!!!
    but in all honesty...i am sure everyone does it.....i often hear DH commenting on other peoples bubbas....and i say to him...'you can't say that!!!' and he turns around and says to me...but didn't you just comment on that other baby??

    i feel really horrible now admitting this!!!!

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    I don't...I think all kids are cute.
    Obviously mine are much cuter, but I really honestly think all kids are adorable in their own way!
    DH on the other hand is a tad more biased, lol.

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    Mar 2008
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    Yep, totally do it. I have always thought DS was the cutest kid ever, but the funny thing is, when I look back at photos of him when he was younger (and not at his current level of uber-cuteness!), I think "hm....maybe not as cute as I thought".

    I was at a friend's house recently and she was like "I just beleive how handsome my son is". I really don't think her kid is cute, so I didn't know what to say! But it goes to show every mama thinks her kid is the best, as they should! I think its lovely how biased we are!

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    Im guilty too!! And I know when I see ppls new borns at hospital and I say "oh he/she is adorable.." sometimes I dont really mean it and DH will say when we leave - not as beautiful as Bella! Thats bad huh!
    I think we are juts hard wired to think our kids are the best EVER!

    And by the way Isabella IS THE CUTEST EVER!! hehehe

  6. #6
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    Feb 2006
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    sometimes I dont really mean it and DH will say when we leave - not as beautiful as Bella! Thats bad huh!
    Guilty! Me & my DH do the same thing as Jakabella does. We will see a cute child and remark how he or she is cute but then say to each other 'no way near as cute as Harry' lol

    All my kids are gorgeously perfect

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    Well, I just think I have the most gorgeous children in the world!!

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    Jul 2006
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    I have noticed when I look back at photos of the boys when they were younger that they aren't quite as perfect looking as I thought at the time (still gorgeous though ). So I am very much aware that beauty, even with our kids, is in the eye of the beholder and try not to be too biased!

    FWIW, I do think all kids are gorgeous, but I also appreciate their uniqueness - their personality traits, quirks and funny things they do.

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    Mar 2008
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    You know the other funny thing is, when someone says to me "oh, he's really cute", I just glow with bursting pride- EVEN THOUGH I say this to others when I only kind of half mean it (secretly thinking their kid is not half as cute as my kid)...so I KNOW in my head they could be just saying it to be nice, but my heart hears it like "oh, I knew I was right- I have the cutest kid ever!".

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    Oh I am sooo bad for it. I dare anybody to tell me they produce better-looking offspring than DH and I lol
    DH is heaps worse for it though, at least I can acknowledge freely when I *do* spot a cute kid that does not have some of my DNA - DH flat-out refuses to fathom that his baby girls have equals among them lol