My girls are 22months apart and girls you will be fine.There will be moments of tearing your hair out and tears but its worth it. I watch my girls now (millana 3 in nov and ruby 1) they play together and are starting to intteract and its beautiful. I too had a shower in the morning before hubby went to work,if i had spare time i would iron a couple of our outfits just in case we needed to get out to appointments(i did for ruby) and the slow cooker was a godsend! chuck a roast in or casserole and the meal is done for arsenic hr.
Millana stopped having sleeps in the arvo when ruby came home.Not good for me but i would have quiet time and would lie on the couch and she would read a book or watch a dvd.
Im quite proud of how i have coped as i had no family members to help me when ruby was 4 months.They all went on trips and i had no time off for months.when ruby was 10months i had a free wed nite for scrapping.Hubby and i had to take it in turns if we wanted anything and no time alone for ourselves.All im trying to say is that when one day or 2 is tough usually the next one is a good day and you just keep going.Keep a routine of some sorts.
And going for a walk in the frsh air is good.Always helped me.