exactly my point!! Charlie has worked out how to climb on the couch and can climb down safe enough... its just the diving off the back thats the problem... he hasn't actually done it yet because he always stops at the top and looks to see if I can see him.... in which case I shout don't or stop or no (none of these work) and have to run and take him off the couch!!

I think i have some grey hairs coming through!!