Thanks for your replies girls.

I don't know if I was worried about the whole abuse side of it all, although a very understandable factor. More as such what is socially acceptable.

I understand that abuse can and will happen no matter what you do and no matter how much you try to protect your children, things like this can and unfortunately do happen. It is a very sad and scarey world we live in.

I guess it just comes down to how comfortable you feel at the given time and place.

Fi, Tehya were's her cossie at the pools I'm not that free with her. LOL.

Thanks again for the feedback girls. It's a shame that questions like these even need asking.