this is me too, ds is nearly 14 mths. he's still in our room, in his cot & wakes sometimes (although lately has been good). all I usually have to do now is lay him down (he is usually sitting or standing when I go in), or position him (he also wriggles up to top of cot & head is squished!). I'm not sure how to get him to resettle himself but I'm hoping he will just get it one day... wishful thinking? ; )