Thanks Tan These past weeks have been hard for me. But that's no excuse to a 15mth old.
We are fairly consistent. He is being very respectful of my wishes not to smack her. BUt he often says things to her that I find hurtful. I know she doesn't understand yet, but she can tell by his tone. Maybe I'm just sensitive to it cause I experienced it but in having experienced it I know how it feels and it's not nice.
I have everything crossed that she doesn't turn into a terror when bubs comes!!

Jan, that's a comparison I ofter make to him. He thinks it's funny, but I'm serious. I don't smack him and wouldn't. So why should we smack DD?