ok i have remained calm, rung my sister and hubby to stop myself going mental and to be honest belting the living crap out of Jack

ok what happened you ask...jack came out of the bathroom with a big i said throw him outside i then went out the back was gone about 5min, i come back andsay where's Luke he likes to hide i go thru lounge out of the corner of my eye i spot thru the closed doors my 8mth old standing at the top of the front stairs ii scream, Lukes cries, i race out grab him turn to jack and said what the hell *edited version* he informs me luke wanted to go out..........

i calmly tell him finish breakie get to your room, i then ring hubby no answer ring sister shaking and in tears.....

so jack had let luke follow him out, he knows to not let luke out to make sure door is closed etc...

so he is in his room, i honestly cannot speak to him because i am so angry is it to much for me to expect my almost 4 yr old to comprehend what he has done...and what besides being in his room is acceptable discipline........he keeps telling me he is sorry he told hubby when i got ahold of him what he'd done but when jase asked why he handed back ph and walked away

btw the door is now key locked and he has no access to his swings tramps now unless i unlock the door