im not going, i didnt feel comfortable with him being abound ppl i dont (other than friends) when he is so young, there will be other children there too, ands it the time of year for spreading bugs. And he has just been in NICU and SCN.

tomorrow is an important day for a dear friend and i didnt want to do both, even though i am still scared every day that he might get sick again. (but thats another issue i need to debreif and work through)

thanks everyone ........this just didnt sit right with me