I had DD1 & DD2 in town years ago. They were about 9 months & 3.5. I went looking for formula after we decided to stay in town for the night. I pulled up at a little corner store, ran in, asked if they sold formula & ran out again when they said no. As I got back into the car I had someone sitting on a seat outside the shop yell at me that its illegal to leave kids in the car.

It was night time, not hot. I asked rather than looking so I was quicker & there was, in my mind, no risk. The shop was all windows at the front & I only had to cross the foot path & walk 4 feet in to the shop to ask.

People can just be plain rude when they don't know the story, or they just think they have the right to say what ever the hell they like.

I've seen some horrible tragedies & near tragedies recieve some terrible comments, on here & in RL, then people find out the facts to the stories & realise just how horribly cruel their oppinions/thoughts are.

Its time people learnt to bite their tongues & accept that you will very rarely know the full stories & its not your right to judge anyone that is not you.