lol Lulu -
we might as well have another one soon and get it all out of the way!
Although our DS#1 slept through from an early age and didn't spew all the time he was not a smiley or happy baby. He seemed to form no bond with us at all, went to complete strangers without a blink but was very demanding in that he wanted us there doing things for him ALL the time but didn't actually want us. I would see all my friends babies being happy and smiley and looking like they genuinely liked their mums and wonder my mine didn't like me! It didn't put me or DH off having a second as i thought surely they wouldn't both be like that. Our second is the complete opposite and has been an absolute angel since birth in that he obviously likes us, comes for cuddles all the time and doesn't overly like strangers. he's also opposite in that he does spew everywhere (reflux) and doesn't sleep that great but that fact that we've completely bonded just makes it all wonderful. And now i want #3!!!!! (just to say also #1 has turned into a lovely chap since he turned 2 - he can still tantrum with the best but it's much less as the frustration of being able to communicate since he's been able to speak has gone away mostly, and now he likes his cuddles and smiles/laughs lots and is a normal little boy).

ramble ramble!! sorry
Julie x