Hi Zavara,

My eldest 2 boys are 16 months apart and I would sometimes dress them the same, it tended to be mainly in the nicer outfits as I would want to buy them and then think I can't buy it for one and not the other. The boys are now, nearly 5 and 3/12 and I find they are acutally in the same size clothes as No 2 is a big boy, I end up buying 2 of a lot of things as there are tantrums if one hasn't it and the other hasn't. I don't thinki it isn't letting them be individuals, my eldest certainly has a strong opinion on what he will or won't wear.

Also sometimes without realising it I will dress them both the same, eg navy tracksuit pants and red jumper (different jumpers just same colours) without even realising what I have done