Thanks Christine, it means alot to hear your expereinces, I am trying to get past my own guilt issues, just when I think all is good then Summer comes and his skinniness is more on show!

I am just more than a little pertified at this weeks dietician apointment..I just couldn't bear that ghastly NGT again..and I know Felix feels the same anyhow his eating this week since his is now better health wise has improved out of sight! and he is eating well but not enough to get rid of thse ribs yet! His chest bones and back bones are sticking right out..it's really awful..not fair that we have to work so hard to get weight on him..