When I had my ultrasound with Noah I was taken in first by myself to do all of the measurements and stuff. I asked the lady to tell me then before Mark came in as he didn't want to know. And she did. When Mark did come into the room he asked if we could tell and the lady told him we hadn't seen

Of course I might've been just lucky that day. Maybe you could call the place where you are having your scan done at to arrange it beforehand on the sly.

The other alternative is that you be upfront and tell him that you really want to find out and if he doesn't want to know then you don't have to tell him.


Take care
Trish