my dh did not want to know the sex when we had lani, i needed to know to deal with a few issues i was having.

anyway he couldn't get to the ultrasound and my mum and i were told we were having a girl (i needed someone to know so i could have someone to lean on during the hard times - so mum was great) my dh knew i knew and he didn't mind, i told him i would tell him if he wanted but he was adamanent he didn't want to know. most people knew that i knew and it was great to hear them all guessing the sex etc with the old wives tales. my ds was 4 at the time and he knew what we were having (he used to help me buy clothes for the new baby) he would tell dh not to look in the drawer cause he would see what colour our baby was lol.

i have heard of a few people asking the sonographer to write down on a piece of paper what they are having and they open it when they want to -maybe you could tell them that when you make the appt. also your ob will have all the results of the ultrasound so you could ask him/her at your appt.

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