Thankyou all for your comments. i knew i wouldnt be the only one with this issue but it helps to get your worries out i reackon.

I find with him is if i get lax with makeing him turn the other way he then gets lax to so i just have to keep on top of it ALL the time. He does look both ways with is good. The last thing i need is another child with a problem.

DD had a dislocated hip for those who havent read my whoas about her. She is in the the clear now thank goodness.

Thanks again guys, i knew i could count on you.