Thanks ladies - I don't know how I missed that other thread. I guess I just pop in and out of here too fast! Time at the computer is sorely limited with three little ones at home! Anyways, we went to the visitation this evening, and Elyse's friend immediately asked where Elyse was, and we told her that we would bring her tomorrow. I think it will mean a lot to her, and the more I think about it, the more I think Elyse will be OK. She is freely asking me questions about death, etc, now, so I think if there is anything that bothers her or that she doesn't understand, she will talk to us about it, and I will do my best to anticipate her questions.