Hi Shellstar,
My DS is almost 1, although i know the frustration you are going through! He wont eat anything solid, apart from hot chips, toast and fruit sticks. I guess what i do is stick to the things he eats and introduce new food to him often like you do. I went to my dr about his lack of experimenting and he said as long as he is growing and eating and putting on the kgs he is fine. But that doesn't help your anxiety.

Oh i just had a thought.... Have you tried mild twiggy sticks? frankfurts? cold meats? maybe she will eat them.

Goodluck and i hope she co-operates with you soon.
Jenni