Oh I hear ya.

I had alot of trouble getting my two out of the house when DS was tiny. If it wasn't one throwing a fit, it was the other. No one was ever in a good mood at the same time LOL.

I second Caros suggestion of a hugabub - I have one as well and Toby does really well in it plus it leaves my hands free to deal with lunatic toddler

It's getting easier now - Toby's old enough to sit up in the pram and look around, and he's not so easily overstimulated so he can go longer between meltdowns LOL.

It's very hard with two as young as we have, don't be too hard on yourself you're doing great.