Ok, after 2 boys I am a little unsure about the whole fanny thing lol. I know to wipe down not up & the general idea of caring for a little girl. I just have 1 question. Isla has a lot (well maybe a little or maybe a normal??) of white mucus. It looks normal & clean etc & the midwife said to just leave wat mucus is there as it will come away naturally. That was in the early early days, It looks different now but do I still leave it? Or should i be cleaning it away? I worry about causing her lips to fuse, I have heard that can happen in little girls when they have been wiped & the slightest graze has happened & then as it heals it fuses the lips. Is this a common thing?

I am thing its just like boys, just leave it be. Keep it clean but don't pull back anything.