Can you give me ideas on how you do this Kim? DS1 refused to wash his hands after going to the toilet this morning. I wasn't going to drag him but i was kind of flummoxed. I explained the reasons but he wasn't into reasoning. Time out was all i had! And that's not a great tool here, because he them puts his foot down and won't come back out! So he wins twice.

What could i have said? You either wash your hands now or ...?
DD has days like these

i usually sing "every body wash them wash them wash them every body wash them just like this", every body shake them shake them ... everybody dry them ....
u know that song? that way she listens lol