okay

i have light brown/dark blonde hair and blue eyes and fairly pale skin, that usually freckles or burns not tans.

dh has dark brown hair with green/brown eyes and has pale skin that tans nicely.

so

dd jessica - was spitting image of me (my twin lol) exactly the same hair/eyes/skin even looks.

ds jay - is more like my dh in looks however he has pale skin and blonde almost white hair, he was born bald and got hair around age 2 and his eyes are a very light blue

dd lani - she was a shock when born lol - she has a darker complexion almost olive, dark brown hair (although it looks like it is lightening up) and she has lightish brown eyes.