Me too. We are trialling one that goes on teh wrist, but Matilda can get it off. So we put it around a back belt buckle instead. We are starting during shopping trips where we will walk to the trolley or walk around the shops at the mall & then jump in a big red car or something along those lines. We tell her that if she is good on the lead she gets to ride in the big red car & we have had a few really messy tantrums with her flipping around trying to get off the lead, but then when we tell her that she gets a treat like the ride in a car she is great. We take the stroller with us too and put a bag in it so if we need it, its there. We figure we can build her up to trips on the train etc....