Hi - I wanted three years between children - the first had to be out of nappies and the cot before the second one was on it's way. Things haven't worked out that way and there will be almost exactly four years between.

Like someone said back there, there's pros and cons to both ... and I like the idea of the one on one time with the new baby, Cait will also be at kinda next year after he's born.

Barb.