Well going with the flow will have to be the solution I think. Last night was the worst yet... up 3 times and when she would normally feed and go back to sleep she wouldnt - I had to hold her hand and say shhshhshh to get her to fall asleep. She just did the same thing for her nap - I had to sit net to her and she held my hand for 5 minutes before her eyes wouldnt hold up anymore.

I would be happy to feed her 2 1/2 -3 hourly but she seems to fuss alot at the breast like she isnt even hungry so I wonder if I should go to 3 /1/2 -4 hours? That would make it roughly 7 feeds a day? Not sure if thats right for her age - might have to dig up my BabyLove book.
Grrrr its so hard trying to figure it all out, and in the middle of the night it all seems a billion times worse Lots of tears from us both.