Seph - love the avatar!!!!

He might just need some time to think about it.... the sleepness nights and endless nappy changes are all too real right now, I'm sure, and once your new baby gets a bit older and more interactive he'll probably be more likely to come round to the idea! I know M really finds newborns hard to deal with, and it's only when they got older that we decided on two, then three.
That is an excellent point... he has often said that he doesn't really know what to do with them when they are so little... and he can't wait for DS to grow up so he can start playing with him and stuff.

Hmm...!

...And the best thing about having another child is that you never regret it whereas we may have regretted not having another (Just a point to throw at your DH LOL! ).
Hehe good point... I will try that one on him in a while...

i'm subscribing to get some ideas!
my dh is absolutely 100% content with 2......i'm secretly thinking up names for #3 LOL
I already know what I want to call #3 if its a girl...

I think its hard if you have one of each to really justify why you "need" a 3rd child - at least to other people.

I always knew I wanted a third. Simply because if my kids are fighting with one of their siblings they have another one to go to.. LOL I'm glad I have the experience of having both a brother and a sister, so I'm glad my kids will have that chance too I didn't see a big difference between 2 and 3, I already had the nappies, baby clothes and everything from having a girl before, plus our car is a 7 seater so we had the room. But even if we just had a regular sedan, you can still fit 3 kids in the back
Yeah that's us, we have one of each now, so people keep assuming that's it for us... I hadn't thought about having another would change the dynamic with the kids... good point! And like you I have all the nappies... and all the clothes, having one of each, so we are covered.

We upgraded our car before DS was born to an SUV that can take three car seats along the back - it was one of the reasons we bought it, specifically because it can fit three car seats! So maybe there is hope for us yet...

Thanks so much ladies!