oh sweets . i sympathise .. DS is like this when he s over tired .. i often have days where i cry at him " what do you want , arent i good enough" i sob in a heap on the floor begging him to behave ..

I guess she is comig of age , and may be teething .. DS is getting his 2 yr olds and he is mr skitzo ..

I dont belive she will develop anxitey or anything like that , this is normal behaviour ..
esp if she is in a loving caring enviroment .. she will be fine ..

you gotta ride it out.. its dam flipping hard .. throw in a 4mth old and somedays i just crak it !!

its also HOT .. the weater turns kids sour ... maybe fill the bath and put a few drops of food couloring so she can play with some toys while you sit and have a cool drink (not suggesting alcohol) but a nice iced choc or something .. if DS is in the bath with courled water , you can find me rocking in a corner

pity i wasnt so far , id come of a visit !