Adjusting life for your new baby is really hard. She is still so little maybe let her lead for the moment and gently bring in routine like feed bath and bed at a certain hour. I know how much you are probably craving time with your husband but this time is only short with her being so tiny maybe you can both just enjoy her together.

On the morning bit maybe she is getting most of her sleep then? Maybe try to get her up earlier? that way she will be ready for bed earlier?

Good luck hun, just follow your instincts and enjoy your precious baby girl!